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6/12/2009 2:21 PM do you... (28 Comments)

Rakesh1989

do you...

do you forgive and forget if someone hurt you once......

6/12/2009 2:37 PMRe: do you...

chillxxx
ViCkY Royal Zorpian  103, Ur PerSoNaliTy SpEaKs b4 ur mOutH cAn pRoVe d PoWer of Ur BrAin, Philippines
YES. I will forgive and forget if a person hurt me once, or no matter how many times a person hurt me. I will be unfair to myself if i harbor bitterness in my heart for someone who may not even have qualms on what he/she did to me.
Though, sometimes it takes a longer time.

6/12/2009 2:38 PMRe: Re: do you...

Rakesh1989
Rakesh R 20, Calicut, India
how long????.......till the person die of guilt??

6/12/2009 2:44 PMRe: Re: Re: do you...

chillxxx
ViCkY Royal Zorpian  103, Ur PerSoNaliTy SpEaKs b4 ur mOutH cAn pRoVe d PoWer of Ur BrAin, Philippines
omg, don't think of the worst. lolz!
sometimes a person hurts us unintentionally but it leaves severe pain. Thus healing and forgiveness takes longer.
If u hurt someone, be sincere with your apology. I think its enough for me. If you caused damage to his/her life, make effort to "repair" the damage.
how long???? ....oh only the heart can tell. :P

6/12/2009 4:29 PMRe: do you...

GypsyMum
GypsyMum 35, United States
That depends on the person and how I was wronged.

6/12/2009 5:40 PMRe: do you...

zaklol83
islam 22, Germany
yes coz of these wards

And vie one with another for forgiveness from your Lord, and for a paradise as wide as are the heavens and the earth, prepared for those who ward off (evil); (133) Those who spend (of that which Allah hath given them) in ease and in adversity, those who control their wrath and are forgiving toward mankind; Allah loveth the good; (134) And those who, when they do an evil thing or wrong themselves, remember Allah and implore forgiveness for their sins - Who forgiveth sins save Allah only? - and will not knowingly repeat (the wrong) they did. (135) The reward of such will be forgiveness from their Lord, and Gardens underneath which rivers flow, wherein they will abide for ever - a bountiful reward for workers!

6/12/2009 5:46 PMRe: do you...

Sunnykl1
ήěmθ 100, past is dead..future is unborn.. so stay in present and enjoy, Poland
i forgive but never forget.

6/12/2009 5:48 PMRe: do you...

RMCFrost
Deacon 29, London, United Kingdom
Well that would depend on how they hurt you, wouldn't it?


If someone accidently dropped something on your foot... then yeah sure.


If someone insults you..... sure why not, its only words and the opinion of 1 person.
if someone hacked off one of my limbs, threw acid in the face of someone i loved or cared about... then I seriously doubt I would forgive and forget... more than likely I would seek very very very violent and bloody vengeance, teaching them what the words pain and mortal really mean..... but hey, thats just me.

6/12/2009 2:26 PMRe: do you...

KNGHTRIDER2000
KNIGHT RIDER Royal Zorpian  44, Richibucto, New Brunswick, Canada
Depends on who hurt me and what they did to hurt me

6/12/2009 2:28 PMRe: Re: do you...

Rakesh1989
Rakesh R 20, Calicut, India
what if someone you cared about hurt you for no reasons....just out of his or her mindset that time...

6/12/2009 2:38 PMRe: Re: Re: do you...

KNGHTRIDER2000
KNIGHT RIDER Royal Zorpian  44, Richibucto, New Brunswick, Canada
there is always a reason, I have never had anyone hurt me for the sake of just wanting to hurt me, not anyone that I cared about anyways.

6/12/2009 2:31 PMRe: do you...

nomanee
nomanee 69, dont try 2 read me,, Bangladesh
depends ,

6/12/2009 2:36 PMRe: Re: do you...

Rakesh1989
Rakesh R 20, Calicut, India
can you say like....you care about a person.....and if he did or said something wrong to u do u forgive.....or do u stop talking to him or her??

6/12/2009 2:35 PMRe: do you...

MelissaHassan
♥MelissaHa Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 29, Kuwait
Yes I would forgive and forget, we are all humans and we are bound to make mistakes sometimes. It's not good for a person to not forgive someone because then they will never have closure and always carry with them some kind of resentment. In my opinion, why hold yourself down and have all these negative feelings? Life is to short, so I say just move on!!

6/12/2009 2:37 PMRe: Re: do you...

Rakesh1989
Rakesh R 20, Calicut, India
:)....easy to say hard to do...

6/12/2009 2:39 PMRe: Re: Re: do you...

MelissaHassan
♥MelissaHa Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 29, Kuwait
Yes I know but in time one should be able to forgive. :) You have to let the wound start healing first.......

6/12/2009 3:01 PMRe: do you...

Anurm
norhanisahVerified Zorpian 18, Kuantan, Malaysia
forgive can forget hard...
some can forget...
sometimes hard to forget..

6/12/2009 5:03 PMRe: do you...

yennysa
yennysa 22, Jakarta, Indonesia
yes, i can forgive, but i cant forget....
i think its almost impossible for anyone to forget something's important that had happenned to them... unless they get amnesia...

6/12/2009 5:21 PMRe: do you...

bimedag
Sidd 24, India
i can forgive but can't forget. but i'm mature enough to understand whats right and whats wrong.

6/12/2009 5:49 PMRe: do you...

fidozorpian
PHADZZZZ 25, Heliopolis, Egypt
I forgive and forget sometimes, but if it's humaliating I can't forget

6/12/2009 6:10 PMRe: do you...

AngeLovesU
angel 41, Ontario, Canada
absolutely, YES!!!!

6/12/2009 7:01 PMRe: do you...

Guest76
M 108, Yemen
It's important to learn how to forget and forgive...after all we all are human being and we do make mistakes.

6/12/2009 7:09 PMRe: do you...

kilppl
Choudry Royal Zorpian  20, times up, United Kingdom
That depends on the person and how I was wronged.

6/13/2009 5:13 AMRe: do you...

DeanDeasy
Initial "d" Royal Zorpian  28, 1 dAy wHeN tHe LeAvEs ArE fALLiNg..., Indonesia
i forgive and i wish i can forget!

6/13/2009 8:44 AMRe: Re: do you...

Rakesh1989
Rakesh R 20, Calicut, India
good :)...

6/13/2009 8:55 AMRe: Re: Re: do you...

DeanDeasy
Initial "d" Royal Zorpian  28, 1 dAy wHeN tHe LeAvEs ArE fALLiNg..., Indonesia
what good? hehe... :D
hey h r ya? r u okay? :)
guess? the red will come 2 ma states this july ... i know u r jealous >_<
bt without ronaldo again! and kaka not in Milan now :(

6/13/2009 9:03 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: do you...

Rakesh1989
Rakesh R 20, Calicut, India
lol.....i am good....hows u doing sweetie

6/13/2009 9:18 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: do you...

DeanDeasy
Initial "d" Royal Zorpian  28, 1 dAy wHeN tHe LeAvEs ArE fALLiNg..., Indonesia
:D

mm... not bad, :P

6/13/2009 8:25 AMRe: do you...

girkin1
TanzVerified Zorpian 25, Whangarei, New Zealand
Depends on what was done, but mostly i forgive. Its harder to forget.
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